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GFY’s Guide To Making BDSM Fun

In the last decade or so BDSM has become a highly talked about, popular form of sexual expression, and is seen regularly on popular tv and movie shows across the world. 

This has led younger generations wanting to express their sexual desires and explore a whole new world of pleasure. However, with that initial excitement, it also can be a little overwhelming if you don't know where to start. 

Maybe you want to try something new? Or you would like to spice things up with your partner? It could be that you just want to educate yourself. There are several ways you can up your game, so to speak even if you are a beginner. Whatever the reasoning, here are some ways to introduce the idea and what we think you should consider to help you along your journey;

 

  1. Sensation play whilst blindfolded can ignite your other senses like crazy! Using different objects play along with varying temperatures and textures. For example, use ice to cool their skin and make it extra sensitive then switch to using a feather and gently tickle them. This method is very good at getting adrenaline pumping! 

  2. Introduce fun toys, such as vibrators. GFY Toy has a whole new range especially for BDSM, Kink & Fetish lovers! So even if you are afraid to say it, your vibrator won't be. This is an easy way to take control and a great tool to use to show your partner your more dominant side ;)

  3. Dress up for the occasion! You’d dress up for a night out so why not dress up for a night in? Dressing the part is a great way to help get you and your partner in the mood for sexy time.

  4. Go to a sex festish hotel. Sometimes a change of scenery is a great opportunity to try something different and get you and your partner out of that tedious routine at home.

  5. Remember there is no right or wrong answer. As long as it feels right for yourself and your partner and you both have a mutual respect and a plan, then there is no reason why you will not enjoy the process. The main goal is to have fun with it and have as many orgasms as possible. 

 

Always discuss your feelings and desires with your partner and make sure you are both on the same page! :p

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